My father had no sons to share his passion for football, so
he indoctrinated his daughters instead.
Once September rolled around, weekends found us glued to the television
in our suburban Chicago den watching our favorite teams: any Big Ten team on
Saturday, the Bears on Sunday. I
loved the college games the most, with intense rivalries, crazy flea flicker
plays, enthusiastic students, cheerleaders, mascots and marching bands.
New Year’s Day was a big day for us as we watched game after
game. This was way before the BCS
nonsense where computers figure out which team should be number one and which
of the gazillion sponsor-named bowl games they should play in. We just had the Sugar Bowl, the Orange
Bowl, the Cotton Bowl and the Sun Bowl.
But most of all we had the Big Ten champion versus the Pac-8 champion in
the Rose Bowl, the granddaddy of them all, our holy grail of college football.
Sitting in our cozy den on a snowy New Year’s Day watching
the Rose Bowl, I dreamed of going to the big game. What a thrill that would be! I would feel the California sun on my face as I sat on the
fifty-yard line cheering my team on.
At half-time I’d stay in my seat as the marching bands strutted their
stuff, moving from one formation to another to the rhythmic thump of the
drums. I especially loved the way
the Ohio State band spelled out Ohio in longhand across the field. Seeing it on television was one thing,
but being there? That would really
be something!
Fast forward to New Year’s Day 1975. By then I lived in Southern California,
but I still hadn’t been to the Rose Bowl, the parade or even to Pasadena. But in late December a friend of mine
gave me two tickets to see USC play Ohio State in the Rose Bowl. Free! The Rose Bowl!
My dream was about to finally come true. All those images of being at the big game rushed back from
their hiding place. I couldn’t
wait!
New Year’s Day dawned warm and clear. We’d had some storms earlier in the
week, but this was the kind of day I remembered seeing on TV all those years
ago. It was perfect California
weather for what I expected to be a perfect Rose Bowl adventure.
Gary and I headed for Pasadena, leaving lots of extra time
to deal with the traffic. I drove,
because Gary wanted to take pictures of the snow-capped mountains sharp against
the bright blue sky. The drive was
a breeze and we just knew this was going to be such a great, memorable day.
Then we got off the freeway in Pasadena and the traffic
stopped dead. Between people
leaving the parade and people coming for the game, it was gridlock. We crept along Colorado Boulevard,
sometimes sitting in the same spot for fifteen minutes before we moved another
inch.
We got thirsty – really, really thirsty – just as we came to
a halt in front of a McDonald’s.
“Why don’t you go get us some Cokes?” I said.
“I’ll bet I can get in there and back before you move an
inch,” Gary said as he hopped out of the car.
Just as he disappeared into the McDonald’s, the traffic
started to move a bit. I crept
forward, not worried. Then the
line of cars ahead of me moved faster, up a hill, away from the
McDonald’s. I was boxed in, so I
couldn’t get out of the line. I
tried to stop, but the cars behind me honked, anxious to move. I drove ahead, climbing the hill,
looking back toward McDonald’s. No
Gary. Up I went, away, farther and
farther. No Gary. Just as I was about to crest the hill I
spied him running toward the car, drinks in hand. I opened the door and he collapsed into the car seat.
“What the hell?” he said. “Every time I came close to you, you moved.”
“I couldn’t help it,” I said, reaching for my drink. By then I was parched. I took a drag on the straw and got that
slurpy empty sound along with a tiny drop of watered down Coke. I gave it back to Gary and reached out
for him to give me the other one.
“It’s empty, too,” he said. When I glared at him, he said, “I guess I was a two-fisted
drinker, running all that way, trying to catch up to you.”
The bloom was beginning to fade from our Rose Bowl day. We rode in pinch-faced silence the rest
of the way to the stadium. Parking
attendants directed us to the far end of the lot, then past that to the far end
of the adjacent golf course. The
week’s storms had turned turf into mud and we slogged through it until finally we
stood at the Rose Bowl entrance.
Our bad moods left us as we looked up at the words Rose Bowl on the
wall. We were actually at the Rose
Bowl! This was so great!
We showed our tickets and got directions to our seats – at
the exact opposite end from where we stood. We walked and walked and walked some more. The game had already started, so we
hurried to find our seats - in the end zone. Okay, these weren’t the fifty-yard line seats of my dreams,
but so what. We were at the Rose Bowl.
Down the steps toward the field level we went, looking for
our seats, but even when we got to our row, we couldn’t see where they
were. That’s because other people
were sitting in them. We had the
usher boot them out, and finally, we settled in to watch the remaining three
quarters of the game. But we
couldn’t see past a big fat photographer and his cohorts who lined the end zone
waiting for their money shots. It
didn’t really matter, though, because all the scoring happened at the other end
of the field. At half-time I
discovered that you can’t read the OSU band’s script Ohio when you’re sitting
ten rows up in the end zone. What
I got a good view of were the backsides of the USC band waiting in the end zone
for their turn.
After the game we slogged back through the mud to the car in
silence, tired and disappointed.
For an hour we jockeyed for position as we tried to get out of
Pasadena. Once we were cruising on
the freeway again, Gary finally spoke.
“Well, I don’t ever have to do that again. You can see the game better on TV, and
you don’t have to fight the traffic or run a mile uphill to catch up with your
ride.”
That’s when we started laughing about our Rose Bowl
adventure. We’re still laughing
about it. It wasn’t at all what
I’d dreamed of back in the Elmhurst den.
Dreams seldom pan out just the way we expect them to. But, boy, that was some memorable
day. It was the Rose Bowl, after
all.
1. I never knew so many fat people could be in one band. It only took 12 of them to spell Ohio.
ReplyDelete2. My feet still hurt on New Year's Day.
3. This is probably one of our most/least cherished memories.
Sometimes ya gotta laugh to keep from crying! I was reminded of the name of a David Foster Wallace short story called "A Supposedly Fun Thing To Do That I'll Never Do Again." Next time we get together, we should compile a list of overrated experiences just for laughs.
ReplyDeleteWell... I did go to the parade once, and that was fun :)
ReplyDeleteThis is a wonderful story. I think that Gary's "most/least cherished memories" says it all - but all of those times with your dad on the couch on all those weekends are experiences that cannot be over rated. I hate sports - I would have loved to love them with my dad. Thanks for sharing your adventures!
Well, at least Purdue wasn't playing as you surely would've been seated directly behind the "World's Largest Drum"!
ReplyDeleteI love the image of Gary trying to catch up to the car and every time he gets close, you have to move forward. Isn't that just the way life is...we never can quite catch up. Donny and I went to the Norton Simon museum over the holidays just before the Rose Bowl. First time I'd ever been in Pasadena at that time of year and I was astounded at the number of bleachers set up along the various streets. Based on that alone, I can really "see" all that traffic and congestion and Gary running up along the street trying to catch up.
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